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Vaginismus & Dyspareunia Program

A compassionate, CBT-based 42-day program using progressive muscle relaxation, self-compassion work, and gradual desensitisation to resolve involuntary muscle tension and painful intercourse.

42 days 6 phases 5–15 min per day Free forever
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What you'll work through

1

Awareness & Trust

Understanding the involuntary reflex response and building self-compassion.

Days 1–7
2

Breath & Body Safety

Diaphragmatic breathing and safe space visualisation to calm the nervous system.

Days 8–14
3

First Contact

Graduated touch exercises starting with external awareness and progressing to gentle internal contact using your own finger. Includes daily pelvic stretches to reduce surrounding muscle tension.

Days 15–21
4

Progress

Advancing finger insertion depth at your own pace, partner communication, and boundary-setting.

Days 22–30
5

Confidence & Integration

Mental rehearsal, body trust, and optional partner exercises.

Days 31–38
6

New Beginning

Sustainability strategies, handling regression, and completion.

Days 39–42